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Monday, August 8, 2011

Time

In every relationship, the road can be rocky...nothing is ever perfect. After carefully reviewing a persons character, background and goals for the future we step out on faith and hope that we have met the right person.

Time seems to fly by in the beginning and before you know it your life has changed completely . You've included this person in your every thought. You put their needs [sometimes] ahead of your own and you give your all to show how much you appreciate that person.

Time slows down during the not so happy times and almost pauses when you have reached a breaking point. You seem to argue about the smallest things. The things that originally made you smile, makes you frown. The fighting is bad but once more time passes ... it disappears. The cycle starts over again.

After all the combined work you put into a relationship , when do you know its nothing that can be fixed and you walk away?  When do you know youve given all you can give and you cant give anymore? When do you reach that point where you know the relationship is not all what its cracked up to be and the two of you are on two different paths?

Now take all those questions and ask yourself ... does this person mean well? Is it that bad? Can it be fixed? Are you making excuses for the other person to yourself?

What happened to real relationships? The kind where its built off respect, trust and growth... what happened to the simple things? Why are we putting in so much time for failure?

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